My Dearly Deported: A Journey of Love, Loss, and Cultural Displacement

Journal Entries from Those Left Behind and the One Taken Away

My Journey

Family Bonds

Love Across Borders

Exiled Voices

A Story Torn Between Two Worlds

Welcome to My Dearly Deported: A Journey of Loss, Love, and Resilience

After 26 years of living in the United States—where my family, my home, and my life were deeply rooted—I was deported. In the blink of an eye, I went from being a Korean-American from Philadelphia to a foreigner in South Korea, a country I barely knew. Separated from my loved ones, including my American girlfriend and young son, I found myself facing unimaginable cultural differences and an overwhelming sense of isolation.

Through this blog, I’m sharing my story: the challenges of starting over, the emotional toll of long-distance love, the pain of being apart from my family, and the strength I’ve discovered within. My journey isn’t just my own—it’s a voice for those exiled from the only home they’ve ever known. Together, we explore what it means to rebuild life after deportation.

Join me on My Dearly Deported as I navigate life’s hardest lessons and discover the power of resilience, love, and hope.

Recent Journal Entries

Voices From All Sides

The Deportee

Insights into the emotional and cultural challenges of a Korean-American deportee adapting to life in South Korea after being torn away from his family in the United States.

The Girlfriend

A heartfelt view of a girlfriend grappling with the emotional distance and challenges of maintaining a relationship with her partner’s deportation to South Korea.

The Son

The emotional journey of a young boy trying to understand his father’s sudden absence after his deportation to South Korea, struggling with feelings of confusion and loss.

The Mother

A mother’s sorrowful reflection on the impact of her son’s deportation, as she faces the heartache of distance and cultural separation from her child.

The Sister

A sister’s perspective on the struggles and emotional toll of losing her brother to deportation, balancing family loyalty with the pain of separation.

Timeline of Events

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I spent the first 26 years of my life in the United States, never imagining that one day I’d be forced to leave the only home I’ve ever known. Born to Korean immigrant parents, I grew up in Philadelphia, surrounded by family and friends who shaped my identity as an American. I built a life—a career, a relationship, and most importantly, a bond with my young son.

But everything changed when I was deported to South Korea after a mistake I made during a troubled period of my life. I had no idea that my past actions could lead to deportation, especially as someone who had lived in the U.S. for as long as I can remember. Suddenly, I found myself in a country that felt foreign, struggling to navigate a culture I barely knew, a language I didn’t speak fluently, and a life far removed from the one I’d built. The hardest part has been the distance from my family—my girlfriend, my son, and my loved ones who remain in America, half a world away.

This story isn’t just about me—it’s about the millions of others who face similar fates, and the families left behind to pick up the pieces. Through “My Dearly Deported,” I want to share the emotional and cultural challenges of being forcibly uprooted. The mission is to shed light on the human cost of deportation and help others in this situation feel less alone.

Resources for Deportees and Families

Links to support organizations, legal help, mental health services, and advice for families separated by deportation.

ACLU

The ACLU fights to protect the civil rights of individuals facing deportation, offering legal resources and advocacy to ensure due process and fair treatment under the law. If you or a loved one is facing deportation, the ACLU provides support to navigate legal challenges and defend your rights.

Mental Health

Deportation can lead to severe emotional distress. Access mental health services that offer counseling and support for deportees and their families, helping them cope with the emotional toll of separation, cultural displacement, and trauma. These services include therapy, support groups, and crisis hotlines.

Legal Help

Find legal assistance tailored to your immigration and deportation needs. Whether you're seeking advice on appealing a deportation order or navigating complex immigration laws, legal aid organizations provide expert guidance and representation to help protect your rights and explore all available options.

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